Are you tired of living with unresolved conflict?
Resolving conflict can be incredibly overwhelming for couples.
For wives, the process is compounded by the fact that we feel like it's our job to make the marriage work. We wonder
"How do I get my husband to engage when he is passive and indifferent?"
"What is the best way to tell him what I want?"
"Why does it feel like I am the only one who gives up my needs in order "to move on?"
"And why are we moving on when I am still hurt and disappointed?"
I understand the guilt, second-guessing, and frustration that wives experience: because I came into marriage expecting a conflict-free union. Or the next best thing - quick, amicable solutions to every-day marriage problems.
But my husband and I were (still are!) two different individuals with different opinions on how to solve problems - which were plenty.
The realization that marriage was imperfect and our lack of natural grace and good-will for each other led to a complete breakdown of communication.
We were completely overwhelmed.
We both wanted a relationship where we felt safe, where we could trust each other with our rawest fears and gut-punching mistakes. But we'd hurt each other with our words and actions and heart-trust was not easy to come by.
Nevertheless, I was tired of feeling overwhelmed by unresolved problems and was determined to learn my responsibility in navigating conflict in my marriage. I was done feeling like a failure and wanted to feel more confident in handling our differences.
After twelve years of marriage, lots of personal growth, research and relationship training, I have created a resource to help you navigate marital conflict faster so you can enjoy being married again.